What If...?

Debby DeStefano

“Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with

thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace

of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and

minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true,

whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever

things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of

good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”

Philippians 4:6-8

What if I don’t get that job? What if I get a bad diagnosis? What if my children stray from God? What if I lose my home? What if someone hurts me? What if I fail? What if ……….. We have all played the “What if” game. It’s only human nature, but it’s when we keep rehearsing the “What ifs” in our mind with no answers in sight that it becomes dangerous.


“Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding,

shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 4:6-7


Do you know that statistics show that 85-90% of the things that people worry about never happen? That is pretty staggering, isn’t it? That’s a lot of wasted worry and emotions over nothing. How much precious time and energy do we use up worrying and fretting over things that most likely will never happen? Sad, given the fact that we already complain about having precious little time in our lives.


“Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof.”

Matthew 6:34


There are many people in the Bible who said “What if.” Remember when God told Moses that He wanted him to lead the children of Israel, and Moses said, “but Lord what if they don’t want to follow me?” How about when Joseph’s brothers went to him in Egypt during the famine and they said, “what if our brother holds what we did to him against us?” And then there were the Hebrew children, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego. They asked, “what if the flames consume us?” But look at their response below in Daniel 3:17-18. They changed the “what if” into “even if.”


“If it be so, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will deliver us out of thine hand, O king. But if not, be it known unto thee, O king, that we will not serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image which thou hast set up.”

Daniel 3:17-18


So, it looks like it is all about our response. How will you respond even if the worst happens? We need to change our minds and hearts to say, “no matter what happens in my life Lord, I will trust You.” Wow, I have to admit that that is not easy, is it? Putting our total faith and trust in Him no matter what our circumstances. We pray and ask God to remove the storms from our lives (and we should) but sometimes like the picture in our counseling room says, “Sometimes God calms the storm, but sometimes He lets the storm rage and calms His child.” So what storm are you in today? Are you rehearsing the “what ifs?” Have you yielded to His way? Have you placed your life and trust into His hands? Do you have faith in Him? Do you trust Him? Let’s change our “What If” into “Even If!”.


Psalms 18:2

“The LORD is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my strength, in whom I will trust; my buckler, and the horn of my salvation, and my high tower.”


Habakkuk 3:17-18

(What if) “Although the fig tree shall not blossom, neither shall fruit be in the vines; the labour of the olive shall fail, and the fields shall yield no meat; the flock shall be cut off from the fold, and there shall be no herd in the stalls: (Even if) Yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will joy in the God of my salvation.”


1 Peter 5:7

“Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.”

 




About the Author

Debby, the daughter of our church founder, has dedicated her life to serving God at Fairwinds Baptist Church. Now a retired pastor's wife, she continues to inspire us with uplifting devotionals, choosing joy despite her health struggles. Her unwavering faith enriches our community and reflects our mission to know God through Jesus Christ.

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“Woe unto them that seek deep to hide their counsel from the LORD, and their works are in the dark, and they say, Who seeth us? and who knoweth us?” Isaiah 29:15
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“His lord said unto him, Well done, thou good and faithful servant : thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord.” Matthew 25:21
By Debby DeStefano • September 21, 2026
“But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty;” 1 Corinthians 1:27
By Debby DeStefano • September 14, 2026
“But I trusted in thee, O Lord: I said, Thou art my God. My times are in thy hand: deliver me from the hand of mine enemies, and from them that persecute me.” Psalms 31:14-15
By Debby DeStefano • September 7, 2026
“There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape that ye may be able to bear it.” 1 Corinthians 10:13 
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"Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers." Ephesians 4:29
By Debby DeStefano • August 24, 2026
“Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, my strength, and my redeemer.” Psalms 19:14
By Debby DeStefano • August 17, 2026
“Praise ye the Lord. Praise God in his sanctuary: praise him in the firmament of his power. Praise him for his mighty acts: praise him according to his excellent greatness. Praise him with the sound of the trumpet: praise him with the psaltery and harp. Praise him with the timbrel and dance: praise him with stringed instruments and organs. Praise him upon the loud cymbals: praise him upon the high sounding cymbals. Let every thing that hath breath praise the Lord. Praise ye the Lord.” Psalm 150
By Debby DeStefano • August 10, 2026
“And these are they which are sown among thorns; such as hear the word, And the cares of this world, and the deceitfulness of riches, and the lusts of other things entering in, choke the word, and it becometh unfruitful.” Mark 4:18–19
By Debby DeStefano • August 4, 2026
“Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence? If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there. If I take the wings of the morning, and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea; Even there shall thy hand lead me, and thy right hand shall hold me.” Psalms 139:7-10